I do not think that we are perverts.
It is just that our good Lord, in his infinite wisdom, created this "thing" called woman that is just too much for us and too much for our own good. I say this in a good way.
We are literally infatuated by a woman's body. Now Robina, go bathe in a river and chances are, you will soon realise that there is a dude ogling behind the straws and the reeds that grow by the river bed just to catch a glimpse of your voluptuous curves. It could just be a ten year old boy (oh yes, he is a man) or an eighty year old man. It doesn't matter.
( Even wiser men than us, divinely annointed, Kings David and Solomon weren't strong enough)
Is it creepy? Perhaps but you know what, it happens more than anyone is willing to admit. May be we are all creepy. All men.
Now, the converse rately or almost never happens.
Now, if only you guys knew what goes on in a man's mind (some of the time) whenever you pass by.
Even your father Robina, and your uncles, just like my father and my uncles are infatuated by the female body.
A friend of mine told me this; (it is something he was told by his grandfather just as a piece of advise). "Kamau, Njohi híû, na mútumia muthaka, citigathira"! I have never forgotten that.
Literally translated, it means that readily brewed beer, and beautiful women will never get finished. They will always be there- with us men and they will always consume our time but we have to march on irrespective.
They are our temptation (for those who imbibe alcohol) and our joy. We are enchanted by your bodies. It is beyond our control. That is just the truth.
It is the ethereal joy of our whole being and our existence.
Now, back to the topic at hand. i do not think,that that is Lupita. Hawafanani hata. I could be wrong.